February 25- Be Yourself

Hello again to all my readers. Today's post is going to go in a whole new direction from the drama I have been posting so much of. Instead, I want to start posting some advice for all of you. Maybe at least one of you will take some advice I give and actually use it to better your own life. I'm not going to be able to tell who uses my advice, but at least it will be here for anyone who does wish to take it.
One thing that always seems to be an issues with most people of today is the difficulty of just being themselves no matter what others tell them is " not normal", "not natural", "sick", or even "sinful". We are all born with certain personality characteristics that define who we are, what we are, which gender we love, what we believe, or even what interests us the most. Some of us choose to go by what we were born with. Others are influenced so much by what they are taught that their minds become closed to anything that does not fit that programming even to the point where they lose their own selves that they were born as. It is these people that begin later in life to re-discover the things they were born with but or so afraid to become what they were born to become because of what they were taught and how others would reject them.
I used to be one of those people until I learned that it is okay to be unique and different, for if we were meant to all be the same, believe the same, think the same, do the same, or even enjoy the same things as everyone else, we would be all robots of the same make and model following the same program. The world would be so dull and void of anything life-like. We are all unique, however, and have different views on what normal is in our own view of reality based on whatever we were born with.
I AM FEMALE. I don't care now that I have male parts, and I wish others would just accept me and refer to me by my own label I place on myself and not what label they put on me just by what they see me as due to what life has taught them about the differences between a female body and a male one. I won't even refer to myself as transsexual anymore because that would be like accepting that I am male but wishing to be female. I AM FEMALE.
I AM BISEXUAL. Love has no boundaries and cannot distinguish between male and female. We all love who we love. If a man loves another man, who are we to limit that love to where a man can only love a woman. If a woman loves a woman, who are we to limit that love to where a woman can only love a man. If a woman loves both a man and a woman, again we cannot limit that love. The same for a man that loves a man and a woman. I AM BISEXUAL.
I AM A TRUE INFANTILIST. I may have the physical age of an adult, but there are times when I feel the need to regress to a child of 1-2 years old. Some may consider that to be an adult baby, but a true infantilist is not an adult baby just like a transsexual is not a transvestite. Being an adult baby pertains to being so for the sexual gratification much like a transvestite wears opposite gender clothing for such reasons. A true infantilist does it for comfort, because it just feels right to them to be the age they regress to, to find love they may not have had at childhood, and/or as a defense mechanism for times of stress. When they regress, they want nothing more than to actually be the age they regress to with nothing adult related on their minds except for having a "mommy" and/or "daddy" to take care of them as a "mommy" and/or "daddy" does to real children of that age. This is much like a transsexual who wears opposite gender clothing for comfort or just because it feels right to them because that is what they believe themselves to be despite outer appearances. I AM A TRUE INFANTILIST.
These are just a few examples of what I know myself to be to show you all how to get past the negativity of others who were programmed to believe one thing and refuse to open their minds to the possibility of anything other than that. There was one point brought to my attention in a forum on another site I go to. That point was that whatever each individual chooses to label themselves as, it is their right to do so. Whatever label you feel is right for you, then that is the one you can put on and be. Don't ever let anyone tell you any different. When you live your life for others, you are living their life and not your own. Live for yourself and just be yourself. Take care and be safe always everyone.