Hello again readers. Today something very interesting occurred to me. Many times I have gotten the question, "Are you male or female?", and I honestly get stumped trying to answer. How can I explain just what I am to those who can only see what is on the outside? In a way, I want to say I am female, but my body is not female. I can't say male because to myself I'd be lying since I know myself to be female.
I try to tell people that I am female in a male body, but then they go and tell everyone I am male. Why does the body have to determine gender? Why can't people just accept the fact that I call myself female because that is what I know and feel myself to be? Then, the question hits me, what do I call myself? I can't say male or female, nor can I say I am both. If I put female, people call me a liar. If I put male, I am lying to myself. I can't say both because I don't have both parts to make me both. Either way, I seem to be stuck somewhere in the middle.
I wish we lived in a world where we all were whatever gender we said we were. Who cares if our body has parts only a male or female should have. Gender should not be determined by the body because it is not the body that makes us who we are. I have said this many times before, but I will say it again, you can create an artificial body, but you cannot create a soul. With no soul, the body is not truly alive. You can make artificial tissues, organs, and blood, but what good is it if there is no soul?
The soul is and always should be what determines gender. People need to wake up and hear this. Look to a person's soul and how they feel. If they say they are female, address them as such no matter what they appear to be on the outside. Don't ever judge someone by their outer appearance. If someone says they are female or male, chances are they have a female or male soul no matter what body they may have.
The one thing that ruins it for all of us is those who claim to be a gender they are not only to get with someone who otherwise may not want anything to do with them. I hate these kinds of people because then it makes it twice as hard for us who really do have the soul we say we have to ever be taken seriously. The other kinds of people I hate is those who lie about their gender only to exploit those like me and try to make us the liar while failing to mention how they themselves are lying. Where is honesty? Where is truth? Seems these days honesty and truth are just words with no meaning except to a slight few who actually uphold honesty and truth. I will not lie about myself. I am what I say I am, but what do I say I am? I am female no matter what anyone else will think. Take care and be safe always everyone.
Wednesday, September 19, 2012
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hi from mommy alice sweety. think of it this way gender is in the mind and sex is what the body is. so u are a female gender in a male sex. just rember that they are 2 diffrent things
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