Here we go again. It's a new day with so much new things to learn. I only hope that my readers can at least learn something new from me. It doesn't have to be the only lesson they learn each day because the way I see it is that we all learn new lessons every single waking moment of each new day of our lives. My advice I wish to give today is to put things in proper order of importance.
Have you ever had a decision to make that you went to bed questioning in your mind which way to go or whether or not doing something would be a good thing or not? Have you, then, ever received an answer to that unspoken question while you sleep in the form of a dream? I did today. The reason I want to talk about this first is because it is ultimately what gave me the idea of what advice to give today. I won't go into detail of what I was trying to decide except to say that it was whether or not to get something I wanted when I get my checks next month. I went to sleep debating over this in my mind, and in a dream the answer did come with someone I couldn't actually see the face of asking me, "Why are so down and out today?" I answered this person, "Because I don't know if it would be a good idea to get this thing I really want to get when I know there are people who need my help to get things for them, and I don't want to disappoint them." This person then responded so frankly that I was shocked this stranger even knew my life story, "Why are you so worried about what everyone else needs or wants when everyone seems to want from you, but then when you want, you have to go without?" That was when I woke up. It is true that everyone seems to want from me, but I always go without whenever I want something because I sacrifice everything to give everyone what they ask of me. Then, when I ask for something from them, they refuse to help me.
That brings me to what I actually want to post about. The best thing to always remember is to put things in proper order of importance. If you have a child living with you, the child's needs always come first. Next, you take care of your own needs. Then, you save a little for any emergency that might come up with your child or yourself. Finally, if you have enough money left over, you can get whatever you want. If you live alone, the order is still pretty much the same except you don't have to worry about what a child needs, but you still have to get what you NEED first. I would also at least recommend saving a little emergency cash for yourself before getting anything you want. You never know when you might fall ill and need money for medicine.
When it comes to a list of things that needs to be done, sort them out by selecting the thing with the most priority first and then going down the list with the next important thing that needs to be done and so on until you get to the things that would be no problem saving for another day should you not be able to get everything done in one day. That way, you will have less stress when trying to get it done and not be confused as to what order you want to do them in.
Anyway, that is my two cents for today. Take care and be safe always everyone, and remember to put things in proper order of importance because not everyone who asks of you will be there when you need the most to help you pay something that should have been paid first or do something that should have been done first.
Sunday, February 27, 2011
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